How did he ask?
This is a log of Russell & i telling the story of our engagement in a chat group, 'the day after'.
<kaleja> is Russell, <shock> is meriko, <weevil> is our friend beca.

(Oh yes. Russell proposed on 22 March, on our 6th anniversary.)


<kaleja> ahahaha
<kaleja> so we got to Boulevard a little early
<shock> 8)
<weevil> *sniffle*
<weevil> oh FINALLY. the dirt.
<kaleja> they were gonna shoo us off to the bar until our table was ready,
<kaleja> but i said we wanted the counter, which is first-come-first-served
<kaleja> and they said they had two seats RIGHT NOW
<kaleja> so we got the counter yay -- i took this as a good omen
<kaleja> we we sitting directly in front of the ovens, so we watched a guy
<kaleja> fondling steaks all night
<weevil> the counter is the most fun!
<kaleja> with dessert assembly to our left and entree plating to our right
<shock> and the desserts we were at the DESSERTS
<kaleja> i said that!
<kaleja> and we wanted every single damn dessert that came off the line
<shock> i know, they were just IMPRESSIVE
<shock> i had a sidecar
<weevil> the merikodrink
<weevil> heh
<shock> and then spinach and cream ravioli (two ravioli, each almost
<shock> the size of my HAND, the spinach was barely wilted inside)
<shock> with chantarelles and some creamy sauce laced with truffled
<shock> veal jus
<kaleja> and i had manhattan and foie gras with mango & pineapple (russelll
<kaleja> loves the fruit-and-meat thing)
<weevil> oh yum
<kaleja> and the foie was sooooo goooooood
<shock> with some kind of rum syrup
<kaleja> mango rum syrup!
<kaleja> i think i moaned
<kaleja> then our main course, i had duck breast with duck cracklins and
<kaleja> duck sausage and rhubarb compote
<shock> and for entree i had grilled dorado with edamame and giant
<shock> shiitake and chinese long beans and aromatic thai herb salad
<shock> and a wee bit of thai red curry sauce around the plate
<shock> you did moan
<kaleja> (i thought one of those ducks shoulda been a goose)
<weevil> oh my god.
<weevil> its like a food orgy.
<kaleja> we didn't rub the food all over each other
<kaleja> much
<shock> and i had a nice vouvray with dinner ;)
<kaleja> we shared a st. louis gooey butter cake for dessert
<shock> i got caught feeding russell herbsalad with my fingers by the
<shock> waiter
<kaleja> with calvados ice cream
<shock> it had calvados ice cream, and little fresh currants
<kaleja> the dessert did, not the herb salad
<shock> yes yes the dessert did
<shock> and we shared an irish coffee
<shock> and then they took all the plates away
<kaleja> and i said "you know, only one thing could make this better"
<kaleja> whipped out the ringbox
<kaleja> opened it
<kaleja> and said "...and that's if you would agree to marry me"
<shock> i think i said 'yes please'
<weevil> awww
<shock> and made lots of appreciatiev noises about the very very
<shock> lovely ring 8)
<weevil> ok now i AM tearing up at work
<weevil> <-- getting a kleenex
<kaleja> then we compared notes, BECA
<shock> we didn't compare notes until the walk home
<kaleja> compared notes. meriko put my hints together and knew what was
<kaleja> going on so had to talk to beca about it. i needed some confidence
<kaleja> that i was making the right ring choice so i had to talk to beca
<kaleja> about it. i needed some confidence that i was making the right ring
<kaleja> choice so i had to talk to beca about it
<kaleja> because i am THE WORST KEEPER OF SECRETS
<shock> compared notes= russell: so, you're not suprised, are you?
<shock> russell: *when* did you first know?
<kaleja> yeah, i was a little disappointed when meriko told me she had it
<kaleja> figured out in 1983
<heaven> hahahha
<shock> then russell said 'and beca was SUCH a DOLL' when talking
<shock> about the non-traditionalism of the ring (which i LOVE)
<shock> and i almost FELL out of the seat laughing
<shock> russell and beca kept the secret that he was talking to beca
<shock> better than the secret of the ring!
<kaleja> here's the ring
<kaleja> meriko's stone is darker though
<kaleja> i love that the rings are made by a geek with a computer-controlled
<kaleja> milling machine
<shock> it's really lovely
<shock> it's a natural sapphire; really dark
<shock> russell calls it the GOTH SAPPHIRE

Titanium rings by Boone
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last updated 13 May 2001 by mko.